How many of you reading this believe in love at first sight? (If you do I would advise you not to read further) Do you know why people find it so difficult to fall in love? It is difficult to fall in love because; love is a situation where everything has to be picture perfect. The circumstance, the person, the chemistry, the personality and the list goes on depending on your taste. If that list of requisition is short, well and good, you will fall in love that much faster but if you have a long list then God help you, it will take nothing less than cupid working solely on you for at least a couple of years to make you fall in love.
How many of you have seen someone easy on the eye and declared to the first person willing to listen that you are in love? My dear friends let me tell you, that is not love but mere infatuation, so that makes it infatuation at first sight. Now if by high chance of coincidence your object of affection (for that moment) happens to live within a reasonable location and is still unattached you have the first component of love right, otherwise it is yet another unfinished story.
Then comes the more difficult part, the personality, what if the person you think is the one you have been waiting for all your life, is nothing but an empty headed, vain, can’t put two sentence together kind of person? You would not go and fall in love with such a person, would you? If you do, then in a few years time you will be yet another divorce statistics.
There is no such thing as the perfect person or perfect chemistry, the person sharing your office cabin, or the person you have known for ages could be your perfect person given the perfect situation and of course your free will. After all it is with a reason that people say “very few live to experience love as it should be experienced”
2 comments:
From poet, you have now become a love guru. Congratulation for that. I would love to read more on it even though i have already crossed that stage.....
nevertheless, i have many experiences when it comes to love. sometimes I stumbled and sometimes I fell. sometimes i fell so hard that I could't even get up my self....and today as i look back, i see how i have actually crossed the most difficult path in life......
These writings are actually old some published on various site and some not published. It's with your encouragement am posting it esp the poems not very confident there. Thanks charo for remainding me to write again
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